What do you think, having a girlfriend is a wastage of time or a need of mental stability?

A sample survey I conducted to realise myself where my thinking stands, and I got really some bizarre answers and I am gonna share them all, don't worry you won't be named.
Simply the answer could be in binary, agree or not agree, while some agree that it's only a wastage of time but some feel it's the need of mental stability.
The pie chart below shows the respective results with each answer. Well, really the conduction was really a cold hearted itself still friends replied it enthusiastically. Those who think that both are things are possible counts with me. I think it's both, because you not know when she will go violent like volcano (mental instability) and when she will be calm like a lake. On one hand she can go on for an endless talk without knowing that if I really insisting to listen to her (wasting time) while she would frustrated if I don't talk to her (befikre).
Sounds male chauvinistic, me too..
Actually the vice versa is also right here. Don't take that I have written against women so have become sexist.
While who feels that none of them also pleased me. They said it depends on how mended your relationship is. A girlfriend completes you, satisfies you one of the answer. While a girl says don't own her to show off, be serious in relationship. If you really devoted to her you neither need to find a time to out with her nor will you get disturbed.
Now bizarre answers include that people like to have a relationship with a girl because she soothes them sexually. That's why they gave them mental satisfaction. Well guys that was really explicit thinking and I don't know you your relationship survives.
Some says that it depends. When I asked on whom. One said on her, it's on you how she understands you or vice versa. While another one asks me to choose wisely between these two types of girls. So he says it depends on our choice.
But what was really inspiring and truthful is some mind opening responses. They say you never need someone else to fulfil your need of mental stability. You can work or solve it out yourself. There is nothing like time wastage, everything counts in your experience and you may even learn from that so that they don't get repeated.
Some tragic answers were there. A friend said me that these questions have no place in our society. She even called me threat to society to some extent. Well my motive was not disembbarace someone like you. I obey you and apology for that.

Well this was nothing except the fact that it was a SSB question and I wanting to collect some possible answers, since I don't have a girlfriend.
So much thank you guys.
That's the level of my selfishness or openness....




--
Deepak Singh

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